Dan Wineman shared a profound insight on Twitter:
You say “looks like somebody has too much time on their hands” but all I hear is “I’m sad because I don’t know what creativity feels like.”
In place of “creativity” Wineman might have as easily said “persistence.” I found Wineman’s quote in a post by Dan Meyer responding to criticism of his research projects.
I’ve said that someone has too much time on their hands, but not since I read Meyer’s post. I see now that the phrase is often a sour grapes response to creativity. I don’t want to do that anymore.
When we see that someone has spent a thousand hours on a project that we think was a frivolous, it’s easy to say “what a waste of time.” We think how much good could have been done with that same amount of effort. But what was the realistic alternative? If that same person had spent a thousand hours in front of their television instead, no one would ever know and no one would ever criticize them. Instead, they created something.
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10 thoughts on “Too much time on their hands?”
Great post, John.
Excellent point! I will never say that phrase again, unless it has to do with polka music.
Sorry for the double comment, but I just noticed on your weekend miscellany a link to succeed blog, which is a site teeming with “too much time on their hands” examples. Seen in a different light, the creativity and dedication necessary to do things like creating a penny pyramid is quite remarkable.
very self aware and insightful post. When I say TMTOTH what I think I mean, is “if I had that much time I would do something else with it.” Which is a pretty judgmental thing for a guy like me to say. I’m usually choosing between another beer and a nap.
@ JD : that’s where self-discipline comes in. So often, I desperately want to do something like build a manned spacecraft out of popsicle sticks, or an Empire Sate Bldg out of spaghetti (using cooked spaghetti though, not the dry stuff like that lazy ass on succeed.com used)– even though what i really need is a (another) beer or a nap, or frankly, both. So when i’m hit with these impulses to “succeed”, it’s only through extraordinary exexrcize of willpower that i somehow force myself to keep my ass glued to the sofa and watch the second half of the game.
To me, “You have to much time on your hand” can usually be replaced by either:
– We don’t have the same priorities ; or
– I wish I had enough willpower/energy/self-discipline to execute on similar things.
The second one is the “sour grape” version you mention, and is probably the most frequent usage. The first one is simply a slightly obnoxious way to mention a divergence of opinion. For example, I think somebody who is spending his week-end in front of the TV has too much time on his hands.
I don’t see a direct relationship with creativity — although creativity is probably one of the human traits that fuel willpower. (i.e. A creative person finds it more rewarding to execute on something that looks too tiring for another individual.)
Cory Doctorow has a fantastic rant on exactly this subject:
One of my all-time favourite short internet rants.
Thanks, John. That was perfect timing after hearing that phrase aimed all week long…
aimed at me, that is… (sorry for the double post)
Years ago I was in charge of teacher appreciation week for the PTA. Though I really didn’t have time for this, I did it because I wanted to show my appreciation and because I like planning things like this. A few teachers told me that I have too much time on my hands. I am pretty sure that they meant it as a compiment – a way to acknowledge the time and effort put in. I would just respond with “I think you are worth it.”
People must have gotten a clue, because I haven’t heard that phrase in years, until a week ago when a good friend saw all the projects I was doing and told me I had too much time on my hands. I am pretty sure that she also meant it as a compliment. I was too taken aback to say anything, but I wish I would have said “I’m sure you meant that as a compliment, but it is really an insult. Just think about it.” However, if she wasn’t a friend, I would have preferred saying something like, “Just imagine what I could do if I had all the free time you have.”